I find it curious that most people don’t value expressing that they’re grateful for what other people do for them. If they did value a person’s kindness, wouldn’t they thank the person? This doesn’t seem to be how it is.
It’s not corny; it’s not kitsch–to keep a grateful journal. A research study revealed that people who wrote down daily or weekly the things they were thankful for weren’t as depressed and their physical and mental health improved.
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We need to rethink exactly what the hell it is we’re supposed to be thankful for at Thanksgiving. This once-a-year tradition hardly counts as the remedy to the ongoing lack of gratitude in American society.
I can’t talk about how it is in the UK or India or elsewhere in the world. I only see with my own eyes in America that a significant number of people take and take and take without expressing thanks or without giving things to others in return.
If you’ve had a better experience, I’d love to hear about it.
Saying “please” and “thank you” opens doors. A quotation gets it right: “Courtesy costs nothing but buys things that are priceless.” I write about this habit in one of my books.
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