I firmly believe that everyone living on earth has the potential to do some kind of work.
For one person this might simply be doing volunteer work or working on their recovery. For another person yes this could be getting a JD.
We are not to frown on those of us who are less fortunate than we are in this regard.
In two months I’ll be 52 years old–and the older I get it’s become imperative to prioritize what I want to do. You too will turn 52 hopefully at some point if you haven’t gotten here now. Prioritizing goals at mid life is the way to go.
In keeping with setting priorities each of us should know that it’s okay to discard a goal or goals that don’t have the chance to be achieved.
At 52 life is getting shorter thus the requirement of choosing wisely what we focus on.
At 52 I’ve discarded a number of goals that used to burn brightly in my mind as things I really really wanted to do in my fifties.
You like I did will plan at 40 what you want to do in the future. Yet the view is different 12 years later at 52. Thus the beauty of discarding goals that weren’t meant to be.
This doesn’t mean you’ve failed just because you’ve quit wanting to do something. You can only fail at something you’ve actually done that didn’t turn out right. You can’t have failed if what you wanted to do you didn’t try to do to begin with.
Bingo–that’s the difference in succeeding at goal-setting–especially at mid life. When we give up focusing on one thing we can replace it with another thing.
Recovery is the gift of a lifetime that we give ourselves in which to heal and be whole and well and happy.
We cannot rush or cut corners when it comes to achieving our life goals. Better to have entertained a goal or two and not acted on it than to sit home throwing ourselves a pity party and not even trying to set a goal because we think we can’t.
Banish the word “can’t” from your vocabulary I tell you. Replace it with “I’m willing to try to see if I can do this.” That’s more like it even if not everything we try will always work out.
I want to continue to talk about setting goals. What I’ve written here is the short version. A book years ago was published that talked about the benefit of quitting.
The difference is: quit when it’s not to your advantage to continue. Persist when the goal is so life-changing that to not risk trying to achieve it would fill you with regret at “what might have been.”
The quote is: “It’s never too late to be what you might have been.”
The view from the cusp of 52 is grand.