I’d like to expand on the last blog entry.
Recovery is an individual lifestyle for each of us.
Each of us has a divine purpose for being here in this particular lifetime.
You are here to do You better than anyone else could.
I’m here to do Chris because she’s the only person I get to be too.
Really I do think getting the right treatment right away has enabled me to have a better life.
Life isn’t supposed to be easy for anyone of us. Yet nothing worth having comes without effort.
Giving up on ourselves or our loved ones isn’t an option.
The fact is recovery is still possible even if you got delayed treatment. Positive change is possible at any point in your life or your loved one’s life.
What becomes the option if you or your loved one got delayed treatment?
Developing work-arounds to use to have as happy and healthy a life as possible given that you might have it harder.
Settling for less than optimal health is the route to a miserable life.
Sometimes you have to fire a treatment provider–either yours or your loved one’s–and find a better shrink or therapist who’s more competitive in wanting to see their patients do better.
In my memoir Left of the Dial there’s a scene where I have to flee an unprofessional doctor and seek treatment elsewhere.
I don’t advocate being rash in doing this. Yet if your intuition tells you and in your judgment you think you’re not getting the best possible care:
I recommend researching new providers.
Resources to Recover in the NY NJ CT MA area has a provider referral directory.
Family member and peer-reviewed recommendations are available on the Resources to Recover website.
Like I said I will go to my grave championing getting the right treatment right away.
In a coming blog entry I will talk about my experience as a family member of a loved one as well as a peer with her own lived experience.