My New Year’s resolution I’ve recorded in here a few blog entries ago.
I’m using the 5-step Changeology method for achieving goals and resolutions.
So far I’ve advanced to Step 3: Perspsire.
This is where you’re engaged in the new healthy behavior that replaces the old habit.
How have I fared in executing the sub-goals?
For 3 out of the 4 weeks I lifted weights at the gym 2x/per week. One week I exercised at the gym only once that week.
The goal I had of bringing salad food and fruit to my job to eat healthier has been achieved every week so far.
I’ve eaten salads 3x/per week like I had expected to. My goal is to have fruit for a snack in the afternoon going forward to complement the goal of eating salads.
I can make no excuse for not having gone to the gym 2x/every single week.
I offer only this explanation: my mother is old and needs my help at times. Faced with this reality I will have to help her out when I’m able to.
Months ago in this blog I gave Tips for Caregivers.
Then I talked about how no one at any mental health organization is addressing the reality that adult children are becoming caregivers for our parents.
You’re supposed to deal with managing your own life at the same time you’re caring for an elderly parent who might be in ill health.
Nobody cares about this because they’re advocating for young adults and parroting baseless anti-stigma rhetoric.
Instead of actually taking action on equally pressing concerns: the needs of older Americans living in recovery who are becoming caregivers.
There. That’s it straight up. I’ve spoken this truth. When there’s no one else to act as a caregiver it falls on you to do double duty.
Alas my goal of using the treadmill 1x/per week hasn’t happened either.
I would like to start executing this sub-goal next week.
In the coming blog entries I’ll talk more about the Changeology method.
The point is that by executing the 5 steps in the order you’re supposed to do them you have a better chance of achieving your goals and resolutions.
Step 3 of Perspire lasts 30 to 60 days.
Like I said slow and steady wins the race.
In the next blog entry I’ll detail 3 Tactics for Achieving Resolutions that I think can make the difference between success and failure.