I want to talk about the topic of rude coworkers. I might have talked about it before.
The November issue of Elle women’s magazine has an interesting feature about workplace dynamics between men and women.
The bottom line is: I’ve found from real life experience that there’s very little you can do about rude coworkers.
In effect management turns a blind eye to how people treat each other in the workplace.
You can’t tattle on your coworker like you’re a kid ratting out another kid to your teacher. It doesn’t work that way in the world of work.
The November issue of Elle reported on male coworkers who reported to a female boss. Yet instead of giving her their work directly they went above her head to the male supervisor.
I just don’t get this: how a lot of people in America seem to be only in it for themselves in how they interact with other people.
I used to say that you should limit your involvement with rude coworkers.
Yet unfortunately this particular coworker might call the shots where you work.
It also comes down not only to gender in terms of how a woman might be treated on the job.
It comes down to whether your mental health diagnosis is out in the open where you work.
For this alone I don’t recommend disclosure on the job.
I would say: be professional. Stand your ground. Be polite. If you show you can’t be rattled, the rude coworker just might give up. They might give up when they see it’s not worth their effort to be rude because it’s not getting a rise out of you.
Often, people act that way to get a rise out of another person. Yet when they see they can’t get a rise out of you that might just deflate their efforts.
My experience is that I’ve been the victim of verbal abuse in the workplace.
The manager wouldn’t do anything about it. That’s been my experience: you’re left on your own to bear the brunt of a coworker’s rudeness.
Perhaps some of what I’ve said in here will make sense.
I recommend female readers buy a copy of the November issue of Elle to read about various types of workplace dynamics.
The magazine also had an interesting article about mentoring.